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 Welcome to the Codeps.com online support community. What is Codeps.com? We are dedicated to supporting partners in or recovering from relationships with sex, love, and/or porn addicts. This is NOT a forum for sex addicts.
Is your partner having online affairs, real-life affairs, spending time/money on porn, or masturbating compulsively? Do you feel alone, isolated, or wonder if you're the one with the problem? Does your partner TELL you it's all your fault? Do you feel like you are no longer the person you used to be due to your partner's "acting out" behavior? Are you to ashamed to talk to friends and family because you feel it's a dirty secret, or your partner tells you it's "normal" behavior even though you feel it's anything BUT normal?
YOU ARE NOT ALONE.You didn't cause it. You can't control it. You can't cure it. Those are the 3 Cs represented in the logo. We provide an online support community for those who are seeking answers to why their partner/ex-partner "acts out" sexually, whether online, alone, or with others in real life. We help you find the peace within you that you are desperately seeking. We cannot help you "cure" your sex addict partner. We can help you learn how to find your recovery path so you can make decisions about your life and how you want to proceed.
Registration is required to access the discussion forum due to privacy concerns.
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The Codeps Cookbook Avaliable for Purchase! |
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Codeps.com is fully supported by member donations. Some of our members have contributed recipes and we've created The Codeps Cookbook. 91 pages full of yummy recipes ranging from appetizers to entrees, slow-cooker recipes and even pet treats! It is available for purchase from Lulu.com, and you can click here to go directly to the page . Thank you for your support! |
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If you talk to many codependents, they would never get involved with a religious "cult." They are adamant that they are "smart enough" to avoid being sucked in.
Yet when you ask them why they are still with a sex addict who is not in recovery, they will waffle and justify and flat-out say they don't know.
Being fooled by a sex addict has nothing to do with intelligence or brain power. But let's take a look at how a sex addict is a lot like a cult.
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Why donate to the Codeps.com website? Because our site is completely volunteer-run, and we don't charge for what we do here. We still have expenses to pay, and it takes time to keep the doors open and the lights on, so to speak. If you can spare even just $5, any amount, it is greatly appreciated. We will never charge for what we do here, so any donation is a welcomed one! |
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Why? 3 Basic "Kinds" of SAs |
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From our experience in this field, we have determined there are three basic "kinds" of sex addicts (SAs), and it is reasonably easy for the partner to identify which type the SA in their life is. This list of "kinds" is different than Dr. Patrick Carnes' designations of addictive behavior LEVELS. This list groups SAs by their actions, behaviors, and approximate chances of staying sober and is based on our experiences. |
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